Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

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It's really sweet of your MiL to offer so much help and it's also her right to do so, but if your feel unimportant because of this development, the best way to deal with this problem is to speak to your husband about it. Tell him honestly how you feel and why it's important for you and your MiL to reach an understanding to carry on this relationship without a dent. If he dismisses it at first, be persistent. He has to hear you out. This way he will speak to his mum about boundaries and you don't have to be the bad guy!

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Home Random Talk mil requested stay with she love baby very much love son she said help taking care baby help doing some house chores cook meal i really appreciated but i found that role has been taken love both them too much my husband take mom first place too really love him much since young should i reject as i foresee have family issue in future how should i reject what should i that wont bad person make decision wont spoilt relation between hubby mil