Mil requested to stay with us. She love our baby very much and she love his son also. She said she can help us taking care baby. Help us doing some house chores and cook meal for us. I really appreciated but I found that my role has been taken as she love both of them too much. My husband will take her mom as first place too as she really love him so much since young. Should I reject?? As I foresee it may have family issue in future. How should i reject? what should i do so that won't be the bad person to make the decision and won't spoilt the relation between my hubby and mil?

i think it is nice of your MIL to offer her help. as far as the love and care goes, it is natural is it not? she is a mother and she will have those feelings for her son, and for her grandchildren too. this does not mean she is taking your place. if your husband gives her a lot of importance, what's wrong with it? if you do feel neglected, talk to him nicely, without linking this to your MIL. tell him that for whatever reason, you are missing the amount of love he showered you with earlier and that you are now used to. tell him you miss it and cuddle up to him. get intimate tell him you love him and you want to spend more time together. i am sure he loves you as much and this is just about time management. things will be fine :)