"My husband has a 'WORK WIFE' and wala akong peace of mind. Papayag ba kayo sa ganon?"

Mga mommies, I'm pregnant now kaya di ako sure kung OA na praning lang ako because of hormones or is this something alarming. Valid ba itong inis na nararamdaman ko. My husband has a 'work wife.' And wala akong peace of mind na araw-araw niya kasama yon. But let me also be fair to him, wala siyang ginagawang masama and I am sure about that. Very professional & friendly lang ang mga chat nila together. Hindi niya alam na binabasa ko phone niya at night at wala naman akong nakikitang legit cheating. Pero lagi sila magkasama sa lunch time and close din sila palaging nagtatawanan, may mga inside joke, syempre hindi ako makarelate dahil di ko naman kilala yung nasa work nila. Naging trigger ko lang na pagdalaw ko sa opisina nila ay jinojoke ako ng mga workmates nila na "alam mo ba may work wife yung asawa mo dito" pero binabawi naman din nila ng "pero mabait yan asawa mo" pero umuwi akong umiiyak kasi hindi ako natutuwa sa ganoon. Naiinsecure din ako dahil ang laki ko nang buntis, mejo lumaki din ilong ko at may breakouts na, tas yung "work wife" nya young and fresh, tapos mukhang masaya kasama dahils a sense of humor niya. I'm so insecure. Anong gagawin ko mga Momsh, natatakot ako na pag kinausap ko ang aking asawa ay maslalo ko siyang matulak palayo. HELP.

Mommy Hazel of theAsianparent

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wag po kayo pumayag lalo kapag jinojoke kayo ng mga workmates nya. it's for your own peace of mind, you can tell them in a nice way naman that u r not comfortable hearing that and if hindi sila magstop then they have a problem. Always prioritize yours and your baby's wellbeing po. Also for your hubby u have to communicate you have to tell him after all buntis ka and asawa ka nya. i recently had a misunderstanding with my hubby din, like your situation i'm insecure about him being close to a girl at work kahit alam ko naman na hindi nagccheat pero i still told him and he explained and reassure me right after then i felt better and i gave him the assurance na i trust him for everything. just be firm lang po sa gusto ninyo and always communicate. don't make him feel na insecure ka make him feel na you are strong and you don't tolerate not having peace of mind

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Home Pregnancy mga mommies im pregnant now kaya di ako sure kung oa na praning lang ako becau