Me and my husband are both woking but sometimes may mga arguments kami interms of career. Minsan nag self pity siya kasi he feels na pabigat sya, I admit mas higher ang position ko than him and he earn lower than me and as a man mahirap nyang tanggapin ang ganong bagay . Paano ko kaya ipapaintindi sa kanya na di naman issue yun ? Paano namin miiwasan ang ganitong argument?

Same situation here when he decided to quit his corporate job and find an opportunity online. That time, I was already stable with my online work and he was really having a hard time. You'd always see him depressed and there were times that I no longer recognize him because of his temper. No matter how I explained to him that it's okay with me until he finds a new source of income, he wouldn't listen. Medyo nagkaron lng ng improvement when he was finally able to set up his online business and I was able to give him a client. Sometimes, no matter what support you give him, he wouldn't appreciate it kasi he's blinded by the current situation and the insecurity. So they also need to help themselves.

I suggest you talk about it , you explain to him na it not a big deal for you ang importante nag tutulungan kayo for your family . Kung nag self pity man siya i guess its normal kasi baka naiisip nya na dapat sya ang nakakalamang kasi lalaki sya . I think in a way dapat wag mo lang ipakita or ipahalata sa kanya na lamang ka interms of career and most specially sa earnings ninyo. Try to avoid arguments also pag feeling mo papunta na kayo sa pag aaway dahil doon better not to complicate things at pag usapan ng maayos ang mga bagay bagay . Try to understand him also kung ano sitwasyon nya para alam mo kung ano ang dapat gawin . Walang bagay na di maayos sa tamang pag usap.

Sa aming mag-asawa, it doesn't matter kung sino ang may mas malaking kita or mas mataas na position sa work. Kasi ang sahod naming dalawa ay kinocombine namin at ito ay pera ng buong pamilya namin (walang kanya kanya). Medyo mas maging cautious ka nalang din siguro kapag nag-uusap kayo about money matters kasi baka medyo sensitive siya sa bagay na iyon. Then continue uplifting him by assuring na satisfied ka naman with what he contributes sa family. Of course, you have to mean it.

Nagiging issue talaga yan pag may feeling of insecurity ang husband. Normally, they should be the one who's more superior in terms of career, so pag may ganitong scenarios, kahit walang kasalanan si wife, nagtatalo pa din. When you talk, you always let him feel that you are blessed to have him as your husband, Kung pwede iwasan na mapag-usapan ang topic which could trigger his insecurities, iwasan na lang.

Cguro ipaalala mo sa kanya na ang lahat ng bagay ginagawa ninyo ay para sa pamilya . Cguro mabuti din na I appreciate mo ang ginagawa ng asawa mo yesha para hindi niya iisipin ang ganoong bagay . Iparamdam mo sa kanya na kung ano man ang sitwasyon nya ngayon tanggap mo ito at encourage him lalo na pagbutihin ang ginagawa be there sa tabi nya para suppotahan sya .

Madalas nagiging issue yan sa mga mag-asawa pag mas malaki ang income or mas may achievement ang wife. Honestly, minsan mahirap din i-control ang insecuirty among men. For the wife, maybe the least she can do is to assure the husband that it isn't an issue with her and appreciate him for whatever his contributions are, kahit hindi financially.

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Hindi maiiwasan yang mga ganyang usapin. Siguro the best na magagawa mo dyan is i-remind sa kanya na ang ang pera ng isa ay pera nyong pareho hindi kanya kanya. Lahat ng property ng magasawa ay pareho silang co-owner.