How often do you go for date nights after having kids? I find it so difficult now with 2. We hardly have couple time anymore :( all we talk about are the kids, the house, financial stuff basically all the boring bits. Anyone else feel the same?

i have only one baby .. i don't know about having 2 and how big it will affect me and hubby's quality time. But, in my experience when my boy turns 1. And he has wider option of food and not depends on breastmilk, it is easier for us to leave him. Maybe once a month to do movie marathon. We do not hire a nanny so we leave the baby with parents. Gramma and grampa happy because they lovely grandson visited him. Mommy and daddy happy because they have spare time. Everybody wins!