Egoistic husband

I'm very upset this morning and throughout the whole of today. A little background husband has no or little income for 2 years and yesterday sold his car. I'm ok to go without car and take it as exercising. However I don't know what is wrong with him. Usually he will drive LO to sch but as there is no car now, we all walk to sch for the first time this morning. Early morning he scolded LO for being naughty. Then when we dropped off LO to sch and walk, he walks in front of me (while I'm pregnant with a big tummy alrdy). Fine as he always walk very fast. Then as I followed him walk we all walked home. I was wondering how come never go and eat breakfast. Last evening we bought buns for LO but realised this morning the buns are otah which is very spicy and not suitable for LO. So I didn't know husband walked home because he has breakfast which are the otah buns and I don't eat otah so I have nothing else for breakfast. To make matter worst, he gave me silent treatment all the way and never asks me what I want for breakfast or inform me that he is going to eat the otah buns den I'll go buy my own breakfast. I got very upset because i have another little one in my tummy that needs to eat too and he doesn't care. Anyway I realised few times that he loses his temper easily at me and keep saying his bank left how much no money etc. So maybe this morning is the start of a different lifestyle without car and he just give me silent treatment. After we reached home 1 hr plus, I confronted him but he says he's not angry at me den I say how come never asks me about breakfast. However he dunno wad to say. I am still feeling angry and upset now.

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Hmm… not siding anyone in this case but after getting pregnant, I solely depend on my husband now since we can’t afford a helper (no space) nor IFC. At times when I see that my bank account is running out of money or that I have to reach out to my husband for money, made me feel very very useless yet there’s nothing I can do about it. Everytime I talked to my husband, he will tell me don’t worry about money but I know his pay cannot sustain the 3 of us for long. Sometimes I just want to take a break from my baby, my husband, anything.. just me and myself. No talks. On the other hand, i know how it feels being ignored and lack of concern as a preggo. At times when I’m hungry in the middle of the night, my husband just ignored me which made me rage and question myself why. At times, he seems to forget that I’m pregnant and he won’t give in to me when we quarrel. Every single time when we quarrel, he either keep quiet or say don’t know which made my blood boils. Maybe try to apply the 69 rule and try to see if you can understand why is he reacting this way?

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4y ago

so happy to hear that. 💪💪💪