I'm a SAHM and a first time mum. My husband and I, stay with my family since our house isn't ready yet. My husband doesn't really help around with the baby unless I voice out. I keep reminding him to help with the small things such as empty the bin that is full with baby's diapers or worst, pick up his own dirty clothes (from work) that he has the habit to throw on the floor. Yes, he is use to me doing things for him. Preparing his food, cleaning his mess, pick up his dirty clothes etc. And when I get mad and went berserk (cos hallo I gave birth via emergency csect and still recovering while baby is still a month old), he will keep on saying "What I did for you and baby? Then who is the one that buy this and that?".
The fact that he keep on saying those, makes me give up to ask his help. But when I asked for help from my family members, he will be not happy about it.
What should I do?