I'm so sad.. my hubby seems to have more time for others like his friends and colleagues than for his family . I'm a SAHM with 3 kids aged 2, 4 & 7. But he seldom have time for family , even on weekends n public holidays . Like today , public holiday good to bring kids out but he said he has appointment with friends. :( I'm so depressed. Talk to him about how I feel but he Said I'm possessive n Not understanding;(

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Maybe instead of time spending time with all the kids, how about asking him to go out on a date with just 1 child? He can take the child out for a lunch and movie date and bond with them instead. Sometimes men feel overwhelmed with too many kids around and it's so stressful and not at all relaxing. He probably sees the public holiday as his downtime to recuperate before going back to work. Hope this advice helps :)

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8y ago

I suggested that b4 but he always have some excuses not to .. I'm tired of asking :'( He is not only not free on public holidays .. weekends too .. every weekends and every public holidays.. where then is there time for us ??