I'm so sad.. my hubby seems to have more time for others like his friends and colleagues than for his family . I'm a SAHM with 3 kids aged 2, 4 & 7. But he seldom have time for family , even on weekends n public holidays . Like today , public holiday good to bring kids out but he said he has appointment with friends. :( I'm so depressed. Talk to him about how I feel but he Said I'm possessive n Not understanding;(

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I think have to explain to him how important a role he is as a full Time Father during the weekends to bond with the kids which they are really hoping to spend time with daddy too .

how about making a set day for the whole family? in that way he can have allocated time with his friends as well.

8y ago

I tried suggesting to him that every Saturday will be set aside as family day but he said why so rigid.. he doesn't want to be tied down to such a fixed schedule ... like What if he needs to meet up with frens etc etc etc.. I'm tired of suggesting .. everything I suggest are rejected by him :(

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Have you tried speaking out to him in a serious note? Hugs mummy. It's not easy....

8y ago

Said all that I need to say. No change on his side. I'm really v tired n sad :'(

plan a date mummy. take it easy. have hope and don't lose faith.

Plan a trip overseas maybe