Need help..

Im a mom of supposed to be 3 loving babies.. My eldest is 7. Followed by my 2y/o princess. Last year, I miscarried. 16weeks.. I felt so sad that time.. Then after 3mos I got pregnant again. I was so happy, excited but also scared at the same time. Last May 24 I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy. We called him Dos. But the very next day God took him already. He had neonatal pneumonia and had difficulty in breathing. He was not able to recover from it. I am soo devastated. Im so lost. Losing your child is the most painful experience one could ever have. The pain is unbearable. Until now, I cannot stop crying. My mind is filled with what ifs and what could have been.. Im so hopeless. Depression has taken the best of me. I dont think I would still heal. All I wanted now is to have my baby Dos back..

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Hello mommy. So sorry to hear that. Isa ito sa pinakamasakit na pangyayari sa buhay ng isang ina, ang mawalan ng anak. Hindi ko man ito naranasan, pero dama ko yung pain mo. Hindi naman kasi madali ang magmove on doon. Hindi na rin natin mababago o maibabalik ang mga nangyari. Ang mapapayo ko lang ay maaari kang mag-seek ng help from a doctor kasi maaaring nasa stage ka ng post partum depression ngayon. Wag ka ring mahiyang magseek ng help from your family and friends, lalo na nandyan pa ang 2 babies mo.

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Hi mommy. Hugs for you. I cannot imagine the pain you are going through but know that people around you are there to help you. You have 2 beautiful children and husband who are there for you also. If you need to seek help for your depression and grief, you may reach out to Cathy Babao. She too lost her child when he was a toddler. And she is now helping other people who are grieving. Let me know so I can connect you to her.

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Hello Mom, thank you for sharing your story. I am a first time mom at nasa point ako na nararamdaman ko yung pagod kasi mag isa ko lang na nag aalaga sa baby ko, umiiyak din ako kapag iyak ng iyak si baby at diko alam ang gagawin ko. Reading your story awakened me na kahit pagod ako enjoyen ko pa rin ang pagsasama namin ni baby ko. Thank you and praying for God's comfort to be upon you.

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So sorry to hear this. I was supposed to have twins but one of my babies died in utero. I also had two ectopic pregnancies. I can relate to your experience. It really is hard. The pain seems so big now, but you can ease it little by little by keeping yourself busy. Take a breather if you have to. You have to take care of yourself because your kids need you.

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Sis, nalulungkot din ako sa nangyari sa baby mo, may artikulo akong nabasa na maaaring makatulong sayo sa dahilang naranasan din nila ang gaya ng naranasan mo. May mga mungkahi dito na talagang makakatulong na maibsan ang pagdadalamhati mo. https://wol.jw.org/tl/wol/d/r27/lp-tg/1101994002?q=pagkamatay+ng+sanggol&p=par

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Mommy, try to be strong... isipin mo may 2 kids kpa... and gawin mong inspiration un 2 kids mo pra kht paano maging strong ka... I know masakit mawalan ng baby. magka sipon lng babies ko nagaalala nq e wat more pa un nangyari sau but u need to be strong for ur 2 kids mommy...

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Hugs and prayers for you mommy..That was a really tough one..Coping up with grieve is the hardest part but you have to be strong for your other kids. They also need you, focus more on them and enjoy more time with them.