Husband thinks I'm unattractive

I'm in my 30 weeks now, and we haven't have sex for more than a month alr. Our sex life was as normal as once per week or two weeks even when i am in my second trimester. I thought it would be me who have a decrease in sexual desire but it seem like he is the one. I kept questioning why is he behaving weirdly. My insecurities instinct made me asked if it was my ugly breasts and tummy... After a few times of questioning, he answered yes. I have really low self esteem and really felt insecure about the changes in my body, and he made me felt like I am disgusting and ugly. What can I do.... Is it normal for a men to think that their pregnant wife is unattractive?

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Your Husband is being an insensitive and hurtful man. Instead of celebrating the beauty of pregnancy, he turns his face the other way. Let him be. As for you, you need to love yourself first and foremost of all. Never go into self hate or Low self esteem. Body will change definitely during pregnancy but you can reclaim it afford giving birth. This is a process. Hang in there and enjoy the beauty of having a baby

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