mommies please tell me your honest opinion and advice.
I’m currently 3 months pregnant. Earlier today, I went to the doctor for a check-up. After that, I went back to my boyfriend’s place. I bought groceries for him and brought food for myself because I hadn’t eaten all morning and the hospital cafeteria was full. When I got back, I organized everything while he was asleep on the couch. I asked if I could eat, even just for 10 minutes, and he said no. He told me I woke him up at 3 AM just to eat, even though it was already 12 noon. I was really hungry and hadn’t eaten in hours. I suggested he rest in the bedroom so I could eat without disturbing him, but he still said no. Then he got up and drank the Coke I had bought, and it honestly felt like an insult. It felt like he didn’t care that I was pregnant, tired, and hungry. I was so frustrated that I grabbed the Coke from him and threw it. It spilled all over the couch and made a mess. After that, he got mad and hit me with a belt on my back. Now he is blaming me for ruining his couch and says I always break his things when we fight. I feel hurt, confused, and guilty. Was I really wrong? Should I have just stayed quiet and gone out to eat, even though I was exhausted? Am I being too emotional, or is this a red flag? Please be honest. I need clarity.
