Confront Mommy. I'm sorry to doubt the "closure". Kasi I would define closure, na tapusin na yung relationship that was left hanging, pero sa conversation naman nila parang he opened up his feelings na meron pa syang nararamdaman kay girl. Kung sakaling meron pa din nararamdaman si girl, the mutual feeling would pave way para magkabalikan sila. Unless, the father of your child is mature enough to let go of his past lover para kay baby. There is no easy way to make you feel better. Kasi masakit talaga pag may kahati lalo anjan na si baby, waiting to come out sa happy family. I guess Mommy, give yourself sometime to think. Go to church. Pray very hard. Cry hard hanggang maubos yung pain at ang maiwan sayo is clarity kung ano talaga gusto mo. Kung ano yung kaya mong gawin for baby at sa relationship nyo. Then talk to him. About how much it hurts not only for you, but sa baby na soon lalabas kung sakaling piliin nya si girl at kung mapagdecisyunan mo na iwan nalang sya. All the pain mommy will go away. Pag labas ni baby. Be strong to endure the pain na kino cause sayo ng bf mo, and stronger para kumapit si baby at di madala sa stress. :))
Girl, better to confront him sa nakita mo kaysa sa mastress ka kakaisip at masaktan ka ng palihim. It is not really good for you kasi preggy kapa. 😔
If you're in my situation, willing ka pa bang makisama sknya for the baby kahit na alam mong may feelings pa sya sa ex nya? Or hihiwalayan mo sya after giving birth? Para lang may maksama gang sa pangananak 😔
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