I'm so annoyed with my MIL! I just gave birth and it's now non stop visitors to my home! To the extent that I have to schedule 2 hours a day! My MIL insists that they must come to the home. Great but she doesn't do much to help me! She just tells them to Comr over to see baby n then I have to prepare etc. I'm very tired n need to rest! It's been only 4 days but if this continues, I'll be tired, losing hair n prob not going back to my recovery stage very soon. My MIL told me that I'm weak and need so much help. I'm so tired of her! How do I stop visitors!!!

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This is your life. MIL or even our own mothers should draw boundaries and learn to respect our privacy. If you can't soften her, get your husband to deal with it and take this matter seriously. Use the covid19 situation to your advantage. Limit to 10 visitors per day, make sure they wash their hands and stand 1m away from you and baby. If you want to add drama, cough in front of your visitor's drink. They will get the message and leave instantly.

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Home Random Talk im annoyed with mil i gave birth now non stop visitors home extent that i have schedule 2 hours day mil insists that must come home great but doesnt much help tells them comr over see baby n then i have prepare etc im very tired n need rest been only 4 days but if continues ill tired losing hair n prob not going back recovery stage very soon mil told that im weak need much help im tired how i stop visitors