I think i am very irritated and annoyed with me mum. She is kind of possessive towards my no1. Whenever we carry no1, somehow she will snatch it away from us and said that baby doesnt want to be with us, especially when baby whines/just cry, she will immediately snatch the baby away. Sometimes she even show me black faces for making baby cry. I feel like wth. At times she can for nth, make baby cry thinking that when baby cries are very cute, then thereafter tried to pacify baby and said like grandma loves you. Mum kinda show like she is the parent of my no1 rather than us. Hubby already feeling kind of pek chek. Im stucked in between i also dono what can/should i do. Jus feeling very frustrated at times.

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Like you said it's your no.1, it's also her first grandchild. Yes everyone will be pretty possessive when it comes to the first child of the family and even first grandchild of the family. She as a grandmother def want to show love but without knowing she has 'offended' you with her actions. Sit down have a good talk with her. She is your mother after all. Slowly talk to her and tell her how you felt with all her actions done. Hang in there. I been thru that. it gets better after awhile.

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9y ago

We spoke to her, my siblings also tried to say that mum is kind of snatching baby away from us and being too possessive about it but she gets very unhappy.

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Home Random Talk i think i very irritated annoyed with mum kind possessive towards no1 whenever carry no1 somehow snatch away from said that baby doesnt want with especially when baby whines cry immediately snatch baby away sometimes show black faces making baby cry i feel like wth times nth make baby cry thinking that when baby cries very cute then thereafter tried pacify baby said like grandma loves mum kinda show like parent no1 rather than hubby already fee