I think i am very irritated and annoyed with me mum. She is kind of possessive towards my no1. Whenever we carry no1, somehow she will snatch it away from us and said that baby doesnt want to be with us, especially when baby whines/just cry, she will immediately snatch the baby away. Sometimes she even show me black faces for making baby cry. I feel like wth. At times she can for nth, make baby cry thinking that when baby cries are very cute, then thereafter tried to pacify baby and said like grandma loves you. Mum kinda show like she is the parent of my no1 rather than us. Hubby already feeling kind of pek chek. Im stucked in between i also dono what can/should i do. Jus feeling very frustrated at times.

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my mum behaves the same way too because she loves her grandson. but I'm not comfortable when she snatched away my son from me before i pacify him when he cried out loud. it happened several times until I can't stand it n told her nicely that she has to let me handle myself so in future I can do it better when I'm alone. n it has improve. she didn't rush over when my son cried out loud.

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