I think i am very irritated and annoyed with me mum. She is kind of possessive towards my no1. Whenever we carry no1, somehow she will snatch it away from us and said that baby doesnt want to be with us, especially when baby whines/just cry, she will immediately snatch the baby away. Sometimes she even show me black faces for making baby cry. I feel like wth. At times she can for nth, make baby cry thinking that when baby cries are very cute, then thereafter tried to pacify baby and said like grandma loves you. Mum kinda show like she is the parent of my no1 rather than us. Hubby already feeling kind of pek chek. Im stucked in between i also dono what can/should i do. Jus feeling very frustrated at times.

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Super Mum

Since it’s your mom, best to speak to her about it... I understand how that feels because my mom would take LO from us when she cries & my husband was upset with that because he wants to be hand-on with our child and not having my mom be possessive over our baby. After speaking to my mom, things got so much better... And I now realize, having a child is not just for me and my husband but the entire family village will want to have their lives in hers too. Jiayou! :)

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