sister in law

I think I have some issues with myself. My husband , my son and me are staying with my family waiting for our bto to be ready. My husband family we seldom see each other maybe one month once or even not meeting them until occasion. But I really dislike my husband second sister who she is more close with. I have to idea why I dislike her. My husband mother had pass away since he was young and his sec sister he Wil treat her as his mother. But I really dislike her when she msg or call my husband all that. The problem is me, I want my husband to love me only and only care for me. I know i am selfish but I can't help to be like this. I don't know how to deal with my thinking and I feel I am being very not mature enough to think. But I really don't know what is wrong with me. I always quarrel with him whenever his sister called up or msg him. I had family too and I had a sister too. But I really don't know why I am acting like this. I even want to divorce with him because of his sister. I think I am crazy for making a big fuzz over stupid stuff. I hate myself. How can I help myself? I know i had jealousy issue too.. I feel terrible for being myself.

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well, I tot I m the only one with issue like such.. I kinda envy my sil for having such gd life for her life.. always got ppl pamper her, her husband pamper n dote on her, occasionally giving her surprises.. now after giving birth, go back after maternity leave, work a short time, now stay home mum.. still can buy this n that.. she nv have to worry abt financial.. whereas my husband n me r working so hard for our lives n for our daughter.. when she need help, then she look for my husband, otherwise she seems proud.. some of my friends say her eyes is above her head.. n she is gd in cookery & baking.. I feel so inferior, especially I'm older than her 5-6 years... how can I stop myself from envying her?

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4y ago

Me too, my sil and bil keep having a good life, they nv saving for future, keep enjoying and spent alot. When offday stay at home, they will ON the aircon 24hours never shutdown even they coming out from the room for a long hours. My husband need to pay for the electricity fee every month. They even never pay me when i help them buy their personal stuff 🙄 Hope my BTO coming soon, so can get rid this faster 🙄

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Home Random Talk i think i have some issues with myself husband son staying with family waiting bto ready husband family seldom see each other maybe month once not meeting them until occasion but i really dislike husband second sister who more close with i have idea why i dislike husband mother had pass away since was young sec sister wil treat mother but i really dislike when msg call husband that problem i want husband love only only care i know i selfish b