What's th ebest decision?

I tell you the real story behind my pregnancy.. I hope wag nyo ko muna e judge at e bash.. Ito po ang main reason po, yung boyfriend ko nabuntis nya ex nya (nauna po ex nya saken) Di pa namin alam na nabuntis nya pala ex nya.. Nung kami na , as other couples do we experienced sex, he was my first and at the time goes by nag bunga yung di namen enexpect.. Stressed at depressed po sya ngayon kase 2 na kaming buntis ng ex nya.. At sabi pa nya at kilala ko naman ang family nya kase ka sosyo ng parents ko ang ama nya sa business namen. "Baka daw mamatay ang ina nya pag nalaman to".. Gumagawa talaga sya ng paraan para mawala baby namen ? gustong gusto nya po na mawala muna kase, dami pa nga kmi dapat unahin specially sa pagkamit ng mga pangarap ko at pangarap nya. At dami pa po na main reasons po.. Pero, saken po I want to pursue it pero natatakot po ako sa disappointments at sasabihin ng parents ko at mga tita's na tumolong saken sa pag aaral ko, nakatapos na po ng college po, bago lang po ako naka grad.. Hope po maiintindihan nyo po ako. at need ko po advice

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I think the realization here is " if you're boyfriend is the right one for you", not "if it's right to continue your pregnancy". First of all, yung pagkakaron ng anak, is NEVER an issue para matupad mo ang mga pangarap mo, the fact is that from the moment na dinadala mo baby mo till lumabas sya you'll always be inspired to strive hard. Bakit? kase the story is not all about yourself anymore. There's a new life that needs you and that life came from you. So NAPAKAMALI ung reasoning ng bf mo na wag ituloy ang bata dahil lng sa pangarap nya or ninyo that clearly being "SELFISH". For now, all you need to do is to be honest to yourself, accept the baby whether your BF likes it or not. Then tell your family, bakit ngayon natatakot BF mo sabihin, nung ginalAw ka nya natakot ba sya? again that's "COWARD". whatever your family will say accept it for now, nagkamali ka, Yes! but show that you are responsible enough to take consequences. Dear, your baby is a blessing, don't ever think of killing it (yes abortion is killing). Just be brave. Yes it might give you some hard time, but at the end of it you'll see that your baby will give you the best feeling ever. Goodluck.

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