I seem to have lost the drive to have sex since we had a baby about 16 months ago. My breasts seem more functional than erotic, and having pushed a baby out from down there, it's just not the same. How do you bring the passion back?

There are some ways you might try to bring the sparks back. 1. Quality time just two of you (Your baby is 16 mo old ow, i think its ok to leave him 2-3 hours to babysitter while you and your partner having romantic moment) 2. Find the trigger (Watch porn together, read kamasutra, etc) 3. I learn vaginal birth seems traumatized to you, maybe you should learn yoga and find your inner peace first before inner sexy-ness :)