I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

I feel this is a very common mindset as u can see from the men in this thread. One of the very reasons I wouldn't want to be a SAHM. Even maid have once a week leave. I employ helpers to care for the kids when I am working but I also won't just leave the kids to them when I come home! My hub and I are their parents and we make it a point to bond and care for them too. If u can't change your husband's MCP mindset, better go back to work to right the imbalance.

I am a SAHM and have a helper. My kids go to childcare but even though we have a helper my husband and I make sure to not rely all from helper. We take care and play with kids and while kids in school, my husband is at work, i do some household like cooking and dishes. I know that my helper is also tired and that she shouldnt be doing all as well.

That's insane , should help each other . I am a sahm too , but doing all the housechore and caring for your child alone is so tiring . How many kids do you have ? Im sure your husband is joking ! Or maybe he talks out of anger ? Thats why i always tell my husband not to talk when he have nothing nice to say ..... to avoid misunderstanding .

I think ur husband is really the #%#%?! It doesn't work that way. Maybe u all should seriously retalk about it? Since he has off work hours, then shldnt u have off-duty hours too? Seriously, wtf. He outside have a hard time so we at home not having a hard time arh. Kns. It's a home and a household. Not he boss and u slavr

Please talk to your husband and don’t let this drag on. A SAHM is also a full time job and is even more tiring. Since he wouldn’t help you with housework and don’t want to bond with the children, how about you suggest that you will go back to work and send your children to childcare and you spilt the housework 50/50?

Have a good talk with your husband. If he consider that he brings home the bacon, then you should also have working hours. For example, if he spend 8 hours at work. Then you should also spend 8 hours doing housework. No such thing as stay at home and do everything. He should be able to provide you with a helper too.

Typically a MCP. since he wants to play such game, well, then set your house rule. You take charge of the house, isn't it? 😀 So list down and tell him, these r the house rule, I AM IN-CHARGE OF THIS HOUSE and anyone who is in this house. 😅

Since u decided to be sahm, ur in charge of the house while ur Husband work hard to provide the family. 男主内，女主外。No wrong. Just dun think that ur a slave or helper. Bonding & helping out two different issues. Bonding is a must.

your husband is being ridiculous. You need to be firm in your words and actions. Once he gets over board, you need to leave the household to him and just escape for a few days. You are a wife a mother. Not a maid

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