I AM SO PISSED OFF! Staying with my parents and they have a helper. I just got back to work (freelance) and wanted my own FDW but my parents told me no space so I have to make do with their helper who helps a lil bit. It's been a week now that my baby doesn't eat and drink so much. She drinks 60ml max. Past week I had back to back meetings/appointments. Came home only by dinner time. Idk how they feed her! Today I'm back early about 11am and they were feeding her Banana when it's supposed to be an hour before her lunch time. Now my baby is rejecting her lunch! She doesn't want anything at all. She drinks only (BM) 90ml five times a day. She used to take in solids very very well. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????

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Oh dear.. this is a tricky situation to be in. Any chance you could try writing out her regular feeding schedule and preparing her meals in advance on days you have to go out for meetings, and giving the schedule to your parents to follow? Or will it be possible for you to bring your baby along for the meetings? I understand it is not ideal, but if the meetings are not too long, perhaps you can consider this and explain to your clients/partners? Otherwise, any friends or fellow mummies staying nearby who can help look after your baby on days where you need to go out for meetings? Also, you can find out what feeding schedule your parents have been trying to put your baby on? Talk to your parents rationally. Try to keep your cool to see if something could be worked out. Perhaps they are just unsure of what to do. Showing them what you have been doing or preparing the food in advance may work? All the best and take care of yourself!!

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