I AM SO PISSED OFF! Staying with my parents and they have a helper. I just got back to work (freelance) and wanted my own FDW but my parents told me no space so I have to make do with their helper who helps a lil bit. It's been a week now that my baby doesn't eat and drink so much. She drinks 60ml max. Past week I had back to back meetings/appointments. Came home only by dinner time. Idk how they feed her! Today I'm back early about 11am and they were feeding her Banana when it's supposed to be an hour before her lunch time. Now my baby is rejecting her lunch! She doesn't want anything at all. She drinks only (BM) 90ml five times a day. She used to take in solids very very well. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????

I think you are just a plain lazy mom. I sent my gal to and fro ifc since I returned to work in her 3rd month. I continued to give her ebm till she was 1yo. Packed the ebm into 4 milk bottles daily and gave them to the teachers when I drop her off. I also sent her to the ifc myself to and fro. In fact, many FTWM are doing that. Coping with work plus making all the necessary arrangements to care for their young kid. Furthermore, you are a freelancer. That probably means you have more flexibility with your time. Routines are good to start as early as possible, and childcare helps the kid to achieve that. Hence, I can only conclude that you are being plain lazy and keep wanting to rely on others but yet nitpicking on their caregiving style.