Hi all !! I do not have any smooth relation with my MIL because of several reasons. First she is not happy because i'm married to her son though its arrange marriage. She keep saying such words like "tenu jadu tona kar rakha hai , chipki rehti hai mere bete se , kan bharti rehti hai uske, paise udati hai , langar khilati hai dusro ko , gents k sath khush rehti hai ..so on" secondly she keep wearing one single pair of suit for ten/15 days even my father in law too. Thirdly she does not answer of greeting to any known of mine and she keep staring at the person. Fourth she keeps standing either on the road or in balcony and does not like if any person is talking with me . fifth she kept checking my room everyday and her eyes are always on me. Next she herself doesn't do qny household chores and my FIL do. The list is quite long . I live seperate now. She came to my home after my delivery and again did same thing. She was expecting a baby boy and gave birth to a girl. She didnt change nappy of my child too and started her same talks and shown same behaviour . on the day of Baishaki she came to my mom's home as i'm at my mom's home . she neither speak to my child nor she touched my daughter. I don't talk to her and I felt very hurt to see my MIL's behaviour toward my child. Should I allow my MIL to live at my home after all such behaviour??

Hi The answer is quite obvious. When you have so many differences and can not see eye to eye then it is better to live separately than spreading negativity in the home. Your discord with your MIL will soon start affecting your children's psyche as well....so it is in good taste for all that you guys live in your own homes. But yes, in all this your husband too must have some say....so discuss with him and put your point forward and see how to deal with the situation in best of every one''s interest.

definitely stay away. i am sure your hubby will also understand when you discuss all this with him, and it is likely that he too has noticed this. as a parent, you should try and have as much positive energy around your kids as possible, and this is clearly not the case here. your baby deserves all the love and attention, and if this woman has so many issues, it is best she does not interact with your child.

you are right in wanting to stay away and i am glad your hubby understands and is by your side. when there is so much negativity around, you tend to somehow either react to it, or get stressed even if you ignore it. once you live away from her, you will be happier and it will also reflect in your relationship as a wife and as a mother. go for it :)

Oh my. I wouldn't want such negative energy around me and my baby. Right now, you and your baby need to be in a loving and supportive environment. You can allow supervised visits for your MIL, but I wouldn't leave her alone with my baby. What has your husband said about your issues with his mother?

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