Sexless marriage

I am in sexless marriage. My husband saw my entire process of giving birth and never want to have sex with me in 5 months. Finally did it and now he refused again. His excuse is TIRED. I dont know but I thought guy supposed to have this needs. But he doesnt. I am so much in pain, having this marriage without more interaction other than a kiss. Talked to him what I felt and he doesnt really care. ?

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I didn't know it will affect them so much. Maybe you can ask your husband whether it is because of the delivery which scares him now? If it is really the case at least you know the reason and can give him some time. Otherwise you will end up feeling depressed and suspicious and ultimately unhappy in the marriage. Is he also stressed at work? Perhaps you can arrange a staycation or short trip without the baby. He should be relaxed and not tired?

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