Hi Mommy. It's okay if you want to stay in a not so perfect relationship (especially if you are considering your kids not to grow up in a broken family), in the first place "perfect relationship do not exist", from time to time you and your partner will get in an argument because you two are different person with different personalities and opinion. However, staying in a toxic/unhealthy relationship with an excuse of "ayaw kong lumaki na walang tatay ang anak ko, or ayaw ko na 2 anak ako pero hiwalay sa tatay nila" is not right at all.
You have to love yourself, respect yourself, and treat yourself right mommy. I'm not saying na hiwalayan mo hubby mo, what i'm trying to point out here is, if you want your kids to grow up well don't let them see how your husband treats you the way you said, you did not deserve, or at least do something about it, or make him treat you better and right. Unless, you want them to think as they grow, that treating a woman the same way their father treated their mother is the right thing to do.
Just my "two cents" here mommy. But still, seeking God's guidance and wisdom through prayers will help you get through it. God bless.
Anonymous