Can I survive without a helper?

I have a pair of 16 mo twins who need a lot of attention, and a newborn baby. Moving out from in law house to a 4 room flat soon. I do not like to have strangers (helper) at home. And I do not trust them in taking care of my kids. So I sent my twins to ifc and taking care of my newborn myself. Helper helps in the morning before twins go to school. And after kids come home. Ifc is not within walking distance. Do u tink it’s possible to do without a helper? Anyone with similar situations can share your experience? TIA!

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I feel that your kids are still young thus it's not easy to handle all 3 LO together. I would suggest you getting a good helper and if you are worry maybe stay around to watch over here and there. Treat the helper like a friend or family member, they will treat you and your LO the same. Do not be scare by all the negative news out there.

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