I have been married 17 years and am at my wit's end! My Husband is driving me insane. I can't even tolerate being in the same room as him! Being from the Indian community, I'm well aware that a divorce will bring about gossip. We have two boys and he's always showered me with extravagant gifts to appease me. His flaws are that he's really possessive and I've finally reached my breaking point. Controlling and honestly always felt a part of me being repressed. I know that my boys and I will be in a happier place without him. Any mummies who have been through a divorce? Any advice appreciated.

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Have you tried speaking to him? Is there any chance a marriage counselling may help? Sometimes, having a third party will greatly help a couple work through issues. It sounds like he is still making some effort at making things work. Being too possessive and controlling are behaviours that could be worked on. Do give counselling some thought and if you are open to it, see if he is alright. Give it a try before ending things permanently. http://scc.sg/eng/index.php/counselling-services/ Take care!

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8y ago

Yes he is making attempts. Will try your link. Thanks

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Home Random Talk i have been married 17 years wit end husband driving insane i t tolerate being in same room him being from indian community im aware that divorce bring about gossip have two boys always showered with extravagant gifts appease flaws that really possessive ive finally reached breaking point controlling honestly always felt part being repressed i know that boys i in happier place without him mummies who have been divorce advice appreciated