I have an amazing family, hub and kid and would say everything is good now. I love kids a lot but recently my hub had rejected me hard on my suggestion of having more kids as he strongly feels one is enough and that he has decided not to hv more. Everytime I think of that would made me sink into this deep sadness. I try not to think about it or get obsess over that thought but the feelings always waver. Sometimes I feel guilty and selfish for wanting to probe him again because I know it will only cause quarrels and more pressure on us so I keep these thoughts and feelings to myself. Any mummies go thru the same and how you cope with the sadness?

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maybe your husband is really not ready for another kid now. It takes lots of effort, time and paitence in raising a kid. With one more kid coming into the picture, there wouldn't be a one to one focus anymore. Your focus and attention will be split. Give him some time to think about it hard. How old is your kid?

Give your husband sometime . it must be a joint decision. Otherwise even if you conceive and husband is not agreeable you wouldn't be happy either

How old is your child? Maybe give hubby some time. It takes a lot to raise a kid. Its really hard work!

Home Just Mums i have amazing family hub kid say everything good now i love kids lot but recently hub had rejected hard suggestion having more kids strongly feels enough that has decided not hv more everytime i think that made sink into deep sadness i try not think about get obsess over that thought but feelings always waver sometimes i feel guilty selfish wanting probe him again because i know only cause quarrels more pressure i keep these thoughts feelings myself m