Ermm yeah I agree with most of the contributors here. Why does she need to massage you? Don't think that's part of her job scope. And her day off is her day off. Sorry to say but maybe the reason she's acting out is due to your unwarranted demands? I'm not saying she is not in the wrong but maybe you have some part in it?
But you are her employer and it's your home so if she makes you that unhappy, then request for a change of helper.
(And the term maid, in my opinion, is so archaic. Helper is a more pc term.)
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