I got married 3 years back . But things are not going well..actually my hubby is not good with my parents . He started making fun of them showing them down in front of others. Always try that I cannot meet with my parents. Life is just like hell...what to do

dear Maninder, feeling sad about it is not worth it, as it will not help you in any way. the only thing to do is to tell him very clearly that you will not tolerate this behaviour, and he needs to learn to respect your parents. if he can't, he better stop talking to them and about them, whether in front of you or to others. also, tell him that you do not need anyone's permission to meet your parents, and if he has a problem, he has to learn to deal with it. if he does not behave and still disrespects your parents, even in front of others, get down to his level and immediately tell then, ''sorry, but my husband does not understand about basic respect and values, so please don't mind his talks.'' this will show him how it feels to speak ill of someone. and yes, if he blackmails you emotionally, please do not give in.