2nd month in marriage and got pregnant

I just got to know that I'm pregnant. I told mom and she just say thank god (alhamdulillah). As I am overwhelmed with emotions, I cried. I said, it is not that i do not want it. But am I ready for it? She then said along the line if i am not ready, abort it before anyone knows about it. I am taken aback. I told myself that mom is just looking out for me. But, come on! Why such straight negativity?

2nd month in marriage and got pregnant
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Firstly congratz to you! I think best is to confide in your husband about this. Im sure he will be happy and will be a good supporter for u. Even if u feel that u are not ready, Allah is the best planner and he has planned this for u. And this is an amanah for the both of u to raise this baby. Take care!

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6y ago

Thank you for the positive support Hazirah. I myself will definitely keep it. Hubs has been looking forward to it since 1st cycle of menses after marriage. And he kept on saying that i might be pregnant since yesterday (when I know I am and have yet to tell him)