I am really, rather terribly attracted to a guy from work.. he too does give subtle hints... I am a mother of a 4 year old with an amazing sex life with my husband but my mind still wanders.. And I can't control it... Any reason why this is happening-I must add here that I am very happy with my married life yet feel like straying-Pls advise

It is human nature to be distracted by attractive things and people. Beware though, it's a dark, slippery slope. You could choose to A) cut him off completely before it goes further and potentially ruins your marriage B) go for it and face the possible consequences It may seem very thrilling to do unmentionable things with him, but there is a price to pay for wanting the best of both worlds. Tread carefully. I suggest you talk to a marriage counsellor or tell your husband honestly that you are attracted by someone else and both of you can work out a solution. You can be attracted to someone else, but once you cross the line, there's a big price to pay.