Breastfeeding mum here. just tried having Sex with hubby but I am really damn dry (horny but dry). I have tried lubricant but it doesn't really help. (Using Durex). Any advice for me on how to increase my wetness - as it makes penetration and having sex very uncomfortable and spoils my mood. Ps- I am very attracted to my hubby Pps - I desire to have sex with him (so not dreading it)

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Tried foreplay? Normally it will take 15-30 mins to turn women on and able to enjoy it. Before foreplay starts, put lots of lubricant to enhance the play, will helps. Create a nice environment, lid up candles or diffuse some nice eo to bring up the moment. As bf mom, I noticed I was quite tensed up hence will affect the level of wetness. I am not sure about you, but I am so tensed up because so busy latching and pumping. Once i weaned off, I noticed my level of wetness seems came back automatically..

Try a different kind of lubricant maybe? Astroglide is a popular choice from what I've read online. You can get it from Lazada here: http://www.lazada.sg/astroglide-gel-personal-lubricant-4oz-3636419.html Alternatively, if you are not breastfeeding (or you can pump and dump), having a glass of your favourite wine or cocktail can help. Alcohol causes the blood vessels to dilate and this will go a long way in helping your muscles down there to relax.

Increase your foreplay time, lots of it! Post pregnancy and during breastfeeding due to the hormonal changes there is some dryness in the vagina. Also don't keep on thinking about the dryness, enjoy the moment.

you're a good and naughty girl ;) go for loads of lubrication and more and more foreplay... and if that's also not helping, try dirty talking or watching some porn together.... maybe it will help ;)