I am 29 years old with a 1 year old kid. The problem is that I put on upto 22 kgs during pregnancy and haven't lost much weight ever since. My husband earlier used to comment and urge me to join a gym etc, but now he has even stopped that. Obviously he finds me unattractive and is not turned on by me. we have hardly had any sex since the birth of our kid and recently my husband has shifted into the spare bedroom. I too don't feel like dressing up or going out. I feel like my marriage will end soon. What do I do?

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You know everything then why not work on it instead of pitying yourself? Start taking care of your body, not just to please your husband, but to be more confident and also keep health issues at bay. Consult a dietitian and have a proper diet. Enroll in a gym or yoga class. You will feel emotionally much better too. You will feel confident about your body and will feel like dressing up again! Also, marriage is more than a body or sex!

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Home Random Talk i 29 years old with 1 year old kid problem that i put upto 22 kgs during pregnancy havent lost much weight ever since husband earlier used comment urge join gym etc but now has stopped that obviously finds unattractive not turned have hardly had sex since birth kid recently husband has shifted into spare bedroom i too dont feel like dressing going out i feel like marriage end soon what i