I Just Want To Vent Out About My Ultrasound Today
My husband and I are first time parents, we are having our first baby. So given the first of everything about our baby. After more than 6months. We are both excited to go for an ultrasound. We are looking forward to see our baby, wondering about his hands and feet and his head and all the parts of a baby. I already had a previous ultrasound on this clinic but it's not for my pregnancy, i went there before for a mamogram. So, i thought that we can go to this clinic. I asked the assistant if my husband can come see the ultrasound with me (I asked politely). She said that only patients can enter. When the doctot came, I politely asked again if my husband can come and see the ultrasound. The doctor sarcastically then said, "bakit? Alam ba niya kung ano ang ginagawa ko?". Then with a low voice, I answered:hindi po doc, excited lang po kasi kaming makita kung anong hitsura ng baby namin. Matagal po kasi namin hinintay ito. " we were located in another barangay and we actually travelled 1 hour just to have my ultrasound. The doctor insisted and said:" hindi naman niya alam kung anong ginagawa ko, hindi ito kodakan iha! " then patuloy nalanv po siya sa ginagawa niya. Ni wala man lang siyang nabanggit about sa kung anong hitsura or ano ng meron ang baby ko. And then sinabihan pa po ako: "nadelay na nv 4hours ang mga pasyente kong iba kasi pinapasok ko dito ang asawa mo".Sobrang hiyang hiya po ako sa mga sinasabi niya. Pwede naman niyang sabihan kami na hindi pwede at kung gusto namin, sa iba nalang sana kami pumunta. I really understand that she just wanted to do her job but no need to insult me infront of my husband. Kasi pinapasok din nila husband ko pero pinatayo lang nila dun sa labas ng divider. Hindi nalang po ako umimik at lumuha nlng po ako ng lumuha. Ang sama lang po ng loob ko kasi gusto ko man lng makita kahit isang parte ng katawan ng baby ko pero ipinagkait ba naman sa akin. Sa tingin po ba ninyo tama ung doctor at masyado lang akong affected sa emotions ko dala ng pagbubuntis? Hanggang ngayon po kasi naiiyak parin ako pag naalala ko ung mga sinabi ng doctor sakin
