My husband has never been a great provider. He's so much of a mamas boy that he gives all his salary straight to his mom and got into big debts to help support the needs of their family. Whats worse, he's into liquors and gamblings. I tried to talk about this with him and his mom expecting her to understand my side as i am pregnant at that time needing the support from my husband for our expenses and my monthly checkups. But she defended him saying he's a good son making me feel he just did whats right. I have loved his family since we were just bf-gf, but how they treat me now after marriage develops my hatred. They even meddled with my business that went into bankrupcy. They borrowed me money and never paid. I dont know where will i find respect for them. What should i do?

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I agree with Sam. You and your husband needs a heart to heart talk. I would say you are in a difficult position at the moment. He has to understand that you and the kids are now his first priority. Yes, you respect how close he is to his family but he has to be reminded of his obligations as a father and husband. He also needs to have the initiative to explain to his family that there will be some adjustments since he has his own family now.

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