I agree with Sam. You and your husband needs a heart to heart talk. I would say you are in a difficult position at the moment. He has to understand that you and the kids are now his first priority. Yes, you respect how close he is to his family but he has to be reminded of his obligations as a father and husband. He also needs to have the initiative to explain to his family that there will be some adjustments since he has his own family now.
Magbasa pa