My husband has never been a great provider. He's so much of a mamas boy that he gives all his salary straight to his mom and got into big debts to help support the needs of their family. Whats worse, he's into liquors and gamblings. I tried to talk about this with him and his mom expecting her to understand my side as i am pregnant at that time needing the support from my husband for our expenses and my monthly checkups. But she defended him saying he's a good son making me feel he just did whats right. I have loved his family since we were just bf-gf, but how they treat me now after marriage develops my hatred. They even meddled with my business that went into bankrupcy. They borrowed me money and never paid. I dont know where will i find respect for them. What should i do?

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It seems the issues have been piling up and it remains unresolved. You need to talk about this with your husband and stop piling it up or else baka sumabog na lang yung galit mo. At least pag isa isa na syang nareresolve mas gagaan pakiramdam mo.

I think it's high time that you think about yourself and your child instead of waiting and hoping for your husband to change. My two cents.

That is just so wrong. When you got married, you must be his priority not his parents or siblings.

oh nooo!! he shouldn't got married in the first place.. your mother in law is toxic as well..

it is true that understanding, and knowing somebody doesnt end with a yes. its life time.