My husband has never been a great provider. He's so much of a mamas boy that he gives all his salary straight to his mom and got into big debts to help support the needs of their family. Whats worse, he's into liquors and gamblings. I tried to talk about this with him and his mom expecting her to understand my side as i am pregnant at that time needing the support from my husband for our expenses and my monthly checkups. But she defended him saying he's a good son making me feel he just did whats right. I have loved his family since we were just bf-gf, but how they treat me now after marriage develops my hatred. They even meddled with my business that went into bankrupcy. They borrowed me money and never paid. I dont know where will i find respect for them. What should i do?

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That's a tough position you're in. While you really can't separate your husband from his responsibility as his mom's child, you can always talk it out with your husband and as a wife, I guess you can demand that all of his earnings should come straightly to you. I guess there's nothing much you can do about it; it's your husband that needs to realign priorities. My advice is save yourself from the hatred. It will only put you and your baby in too much stress. Extend your patience as long as you can and never forget to always talk and remind your husband. You gotta deal with things together, no matter what, no matter how tiring it may get. Hope you'll feel good soon

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Home Random Talk husband has never been great provider much mamas boy that gives salary straight mom got into big debts help support needs their family whats worse into liquors gamblings i tried talk about with him mom expecting understand side i pregnant that time needing support from husband expenses monthly checkups but defended him saying good son making feel did whats right i have loved family since were bf gf but how treat now after marriage develops h