My husband is 4 years older than me,he mature enough in compare to me I think that's y we have different views On every topic and certain times we start fighting,is this true that age gap matters in Husband wife relationship

Hi, You know, you may differ with me, but I do not think that if a person is elder to you would necessarily mean that he is more mature than you. Haven't you seen at times, how silly and immature many people who are way too old behave? But, yes, it is an issue if your husband also feels the same way, which is, he is elder to you so he is more mature. And this is the biggest sign of being immature. But all in all, when it comes to men in India, they always think themselves wiser and intelligent and mature to their wives, so it is not something new. I suggest, atleast you act real mature unlike him. And let him have the lead and do not discuss topics where you think he is not going to buy your point or can be a cause of rift between you two. Four years gap matters when we are young but if both of you are in your 30s or more, then I think the age gap fuses because you both are exposed to things and circumstances which both of you are big enough to understand and take. Like for example you are 16, so you will not be exposed to certain movies or scenes thinking that she is small and can have wrong impact on her psyche, which won't be with someone who is 20. But after you cross a certain age 4 years gap is nothing. So, this notion that 34 year person would be less mature and 38 one would be more is baseless. Yes, he can have more experience. I suggest, if he is mature enough to understand this then you can first make him understand this logic and if he does get this, you people would not argue on each and every thing. When we are too opinionated about things even then such problems arise. If he is such a person, I think if you can change him well and good, else do not initiate such topics. And when you will stop keeping your point of view, he will surely get concerned why you are being quiet. So, then you can tell him that you will only voice your opinion when he would listen to you with open minded without the age bias and the notion that age brings maturity.

Yes, I think age gap does matter. I will not endorse the idea that maturity comes with age but age gap definitely matters. If you are younger to your husband and the age gap is more than 4 or 5 years then your likes, preferences all change. And this affects more as we age. Because generally with age we are low on physical energy and lack enthusiasm to do things. I suggest, if your husband is the sorts who won't change and is adamant on things then it is better not to argue with him. If you feel like doing something, you go ahead with your friends or other family members, and do not discuss at length the topics where you know friction would arise. This will be quite mature of you, if you act this way. Else, talk to your husband and make him understand that just because he is elder to you doesn't make him right all the time.

Hey, that's really true it happens with me to but what I do actually if my husband become speaker than I will try to be to be good listener sometimes I found yes I have many things to learn more from him he seen this world more than me he better knows what's wrong and right he guides his maturity level helps me a lot to understand situation which earlier I took so easily now I m also trying to be mature as I still think I have so much to learn from him but at the same time I tried to avoid fighting I am not going to talk and start reading books . Age gap really doesn't impact on relationship we have a great examples of our parents my papa is 7years older than my mummy ... still they have a wonderful relation .....

hi dear, since you mentioned a 4 year age gap, i do not think it really matters. honestly, i don't really think an age gap has that much to do with the compatibility and thought process. i have seen couples where the age gap is almost 10 years and they are very happy, same aged couples who can't tolerate each other, and couples where the man is younger and the woman older and still happy together. its all about how you deal with it. its not necessary that you both have to agree with each other on everything. try to find a middle ground. when he shares his views, listen to him patiently. if you dont agree, tell him why. learn to listen to each other with an open mind and have a good communication going

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