My husband is 4 years older than me,he mature enough in compare to me I think that's y we have different views On every topic and certain times we start fighting,is this true that age gap matters in Husband wife relationship

Hi, You know, you may differ with me, but I do not think that if a person is elder to you would necessarily mean that he is more mature than you. Haven't you seen at times, how silly and immature many people who are way too old behave? But, yes, it is an issue if your husband also feels the same way, which is, he is elder to you so he is more mature. And this is the biggest sign of being immature. But all in all, when it comes to men in India, they always think themselves wiser and intelligent and mature to their wives, so it is not something new. I suggest, atleast you act real mature unlike him. And let him have the lead and do not discuss topics where you think he is not going to buy your point or can be a cause of rift between you two. Four years gap matters when we are young but if both of you are in your 30s or more, then I think the age gap fuses because you both are exposed to things and circumstances which both of you are big enough to understand and take. Like for example you are 16, so you will not be exposed to certain movies or scenes thinking that she is small and can have wrong impact on her psyche, which won't be with someone who is 20. But after you cross a certain age 4 years gap is nothing. So, this notion that 34 year person would be less mature and 38 one would be more is baseless. Yes, he can have more experience. I suggest, if he is mature enough to understand this then you can first make him understand this logic and if he does get this, you people would not argue on each and every thing. When we are too opinionated about things even then such problems arise. If he is such a person, I think if you can change him well and good, else do not initiate such topics. And when you will stop keeping your point of view, he will surely get concerned why you are being quiet. So, then you can tell him that you will only voice your opinion when he would listen to you with open minded without the age bias and the notion that age brings maturity.