hubby lacklustre support

My hubby is lacklustre about child caring and doesnt take any effort to read up on baby sleeping habit or cultivate a good sleep routine. He feeds when he feel baby needs, he doesnt care about making good routine when I have been painstakingly trying to make a good one. I'm really very pissed off because baby's day routine drastically affect the night sleep and I have to be the one who feeds him at night. What can I do?? Should I just give up n throw baby to him?

Shihui Karen

Momsy of 1 rambunctious cub

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Have you talked to him with a counselor?

Shihui Karen

Momsy of 1 rambunctious cub

4y ago

Honestly hes not a bad hubby nor a bad dad just a little uneducated on how to care for baby. He just shrug off as like how our mum took care of us with no knowledge so we also dont need to read so much it will go naturally. I guess I might sound abit like helicopter parent but my purpose is to give us parent some breather. With baby having a good routine, we would also have a good night sleep. But I guess he wants it his way so some karma is on the way to him... haha

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