How do you cope with this? No matter how much you try to be beautiful for your husband/partner, he still says, "You are not taking care of yourself anymore". It's like whatever you do, it's not enough for him that you end up being embarrassed of your battle scars from giving birth to your child. You do not like him to see you even halfnaked (when you're dressing up) because he might point out your flaws again. How do you get that self-confidence back when he is the putting you down? Though you know he isn't being mean, just genuinely concerned but jn a wrong way...? ?