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how to control emotions when your kids tantrum and crying very louder. sometime i can't handle my temperature ???

Kids throws tantrum because they want attention. To stop it, dont scream at them. What I recommend you to do: 1. Take a deep breath and count to 3, this is to calm you down 2. Go to their eye level, so, get on your knee or put them to sit on a table. Look them in the eye. And ask them what is wrong. If they ask something unreasonable, talk to them in firm but low voice, kind of a male voice, and tell them it is not possible to grant what they want and tell them to keep calm. 3. If they still cant keep calm enough to talk and keep yelling and screaming, tell them that you will only talk to them if they calm down. Then them back down (if you sat them on the table) and let them throw their tantrum while looking away from them. Wait for few mins and ask them if they calm down or not. If not, leave them be again. That works magically. Especially training children not to always throw tantrum just to get our attention
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