PARENTING HELP: NAG AWAY INFRONT OF KIDS

Question

How would you answer your child? The scenario: My husband used to have good time even if we have two kids, like playing Dota, going out with friends. Many times we talk about it already that sana bigyan niya time family namin more than having good time. Kasi, in most cases napabayaan na niya kami. Like its okay to do it, pero sana may limitations na kasi married na siya and we had two boys already. Until, one time di na talaga ako magpatimpi. He was sleeping kaagad after nag inoman sa labas. Habang ako karga2 ko baby ko tapos he knows may mastitis ako so i was having a hard time kasi masakit yung dede ko tapos ang isa ko pang anak is sigaw nang mama. Then I started to confront him nangpagising na siguro in a shouted way then my 2yrs old eldest child  asks me. Mama about what happen to me and his papa. Btw, my children are 2 yrs. and 1 yrs. old

Mauie Aguirre · Answer

For me, ang mga bata matatalino yan. Alam nila if anong nangyayare. I remember madalas kase kame umimik ng malakas so kala ni baby nag aaway kame ng daddy nya pero in fact nag uusap lang talaga kame. Sabi ni baby, no no away. 😂 tapos eexplain namen na di kame nag aaway nag uusap lang. Every time mapapalakas boses namen sya na pumapagitna at magtatawanan na lang kame kase ayaw talaga nya ng nag aaway. Maybe you could explain to your child na you want lang his daddy to wake up kaya you shouted cause di magising si daddy nya and you need help. As much as possible wag po naten ipakita sa mga anak naten na nag aaway tayo. Possible magkanegative effect sa kanila yun.

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