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My Myanmar helper has been living with us for 9 months and she has started to show some attitude to my mother in law and baby. Of course, there are way more issues (SIGH). My husband and me talked to her on the issues many times repeatedly. She is more scared of me as I’m told by many people that I look fierce when I don’t smile. If she don’t answer me, i will ask her again “yes or no?” (not smiling) and she knows the limit. Sometimes I also do feel like I am too lenient and nice to my helper by buying her nice food etc so that’s why they dare to show attitude and climb over our head. Heard from a lot of people with helper experiences, it would be better to only give bonus after 2 years. Helpers usually take 1 year to only adapt into (most of) our expectations so another year is use to see if they deserve the bonus.

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