Fat Mommy

Hi guys, I would just like to vent out and get some advice from you all. I just gave birth last month, Sept 16 and my family (mom, aunt, lola and other relatives) just wont stop making comment on how fat am I. I know in myself na hindi naman ganun kalaki ang tinaba ko, kasi I was already on the chubby side (60 kgs) before I got pregnant tapos nasa 70 kgs ako ngayon. Pero lahat nalang talaga, icocomment nila na "ang taba mo kasi", ikakahiya ka ng anak mo dahil sa katabaan mo, mambababae yung asawa mo kasi ang taba mo, etc. I called them out to stop, and they just laughed at me, and told me na mataba ka naman talaga, bat di ka tumulad sa mga artista na pagkapanganak palang payat na ulit. ? Alam kong di pa ako pwede mag hardcore workout at lalong di ako pwede mag starve kasi 1 month pa nga lang ng nanganak ako. Hindi din ako breastfeeding mom due to low supply. Pero nafrufrustrate na ako, di ko na alam gagawin ko. Im having suicidal thoughts. Gusto ko ng mawala sa katawan na to. My partner loves me and he doesnt mind my body pero natatalo yung love na pinaparamdam niya sakin ng mean comments ng mismong family ko. Dito kasi ako samin nagsstay habang wala pang nakukuhang magbabantay sa baby ko at naka matleave ako. Naiisip ko nga sa bahay hindi ako ligtas sa bullying, whatmore pa kaya sa labas. Ano ba dapat kong gawin.

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I was 44kg before, 65 when I was pregnant. 53 now, And I dont do anything. Im just taking my time. Been hearing tons of s*** like this. And yes its frustrating, But as the time goes by I am learning to love myself more. Acceptance dear 😊 Being a mum is a full time job, If you dont have time for work outs, Thats fine. You dont have to please them with sexy bod. Instead show them how you’re spending your time taking care of the baby. Just Ignore. You went through a lot, You dont need those negativity in your life. And its also Given that It takes time for our body to come back the way it was. Embrace yourself! You are beautiful in every single way ❤️

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