Try not to do everything yourself. Sometime it is good to learn to be gentle and kind to ourselves by letting go and let less priority thing be manage by our spouse or other family member, just Focus on your child. CNY is a time of celebration and reunion, don’t quarrel over it. Let you hubby decide what to eat, who to visit first and do on... release yourself from all the chores... Let it go, let it go.. and just enjoy the celebration 😊 Jiayou!!!
I do understand your situation. Hope this may help you. https://sg.theasianparent.com/dealing-with-a-stressed-partner
JT