have you ever had a bad dream about your baby?

as a first time mom, i have so much insecurities, fears, anxiety and panics when it comes to being a mom. i have no one to guide me through this journey since my mom passed away 3years ago. it was so hard to ask opinions from other moms since di nila ako kilala. but im trying to be a good mom sa way na kaya ko no pressure. but lately i have this constant nightmares. i would not want to bring my baby anywhere she can be harmed. i do not want to be the one to cause her harm. :( sometimes i just feel so sad i would keep staring at her sleeping until i would fall asleep.

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dear, same tau. walang nanay na nag gagabay nung pinanganak ko si panganay. ung MIL ko nman wala na maituro kesyo d na daw nya maalala. wag ka po mahiya magtanong dito. mas mahirap to learn things on ur own, and on hard way pa. nangyari na un saken. na ospital si panganay nung 2mos pa sya dahil sa UTI. reason: d ko alam na need pala palitan agad ung diaper pag new born. sa kakatipid ko, nababad ng matagal kaya nagka UTI sya. walang nagturo, wala rin ako mapatanungan dito kc wala pang ganitong app, at wala pa akong kakilala sa mga kapitbahay that time.. andito naman ang community to help.. basta do ur best and trust ur mother instinct. wag patalo sa takot. d mag go grkw ng maayos anak mo if lahat ng opportunity to grow eh ilalayo mo..

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How about ur aunt sis? MIL mo? Anyway pwede knmn magshare or mag ask ng mga questions dto pra ma guide ka... its a normal thing since first tym mom ka pero wag ka msyado mag isip...

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