Parents coming over uninvited

Hi everyone. I am in a difficult situation. We gave set of keys to both our parents in case anything of emergency. With that, my father comes over almost everyday uninvited. I am okay with it but my spouse on the other hand thinks its rude and disrespectful. He wanted to tell my dad off but i stopped him as you know parents get sensitive as they age. My spouse has repeatedly say he is going to tell him off but i do not want to ruin the already perfect relationship we have now as family/in laws. I know i am wrong for stopping my spouse as this is his house too. But my dad only wanted to see his grandchildren. Just thats its abit too excessive😔 What should i do?

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I think you will feel uncomfortable if your in laws were to do the same too. Personally I would feel upset as I need my privacy in my own house. Try to talk to your dad to work things out. Maybe you can ask him to inform you that he is coming instead of just coming into the house without informing.

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4mo ago

Yeah, you have your point. I will try to see how i can put that across to my dad without offending him. Thanks!